FAQsQuestionWhen my boyfriend caresses my G-spot I always feel this urge to wee. I go to the toilet before he fingers me so I don't think I have any urine there. I always tell him to stop because I feel as if I can’t hold on any longer. If I let go will I pass urine or will I have an orgasm and cum? Answer It's difficult to give you a good answer to this question. The area known as the G-spot is on the front wall of the lower third of the vagina, about four centimetres in from the entrance. Most sex therapists believe it is part of the sensitive spongy tissue and sexual glands that run back deep inside the body in front of the vagina and behind the clitoris. In a fabulous book, The Story of V, Catherine Blackledge (2003) describes the female ejaculation very clearly. She reports that some American studies estimate that 10%of the female population experience ejaculation at orgasm. Others quote as many as 40-68%. She also says that numbers fluctuate when we look at the amount of fluid a woman may release at orgasm. 10-15ml of fluid appears to be typical. There is always a small amount of urine held inside the bladder and it is possible that this can leak out at orgasm due to the powerful contractions of the muscles around the bladder. Regardless, sex is usually a pretty wet and slippery business and the small amount of urine or female ejaculate produced will hardly be noticed - so we suggest that you keep going with the stimulation as long as it feels good for you and see what happens. By the way, many women find it difficult to locate their G-spot and still have wonderful sex. The videos Journey to female orgasm: Awakening the G-spot and Female ejaculation, which were both made by Deborah Sundahl, can be accessed through the website http://www.goodvibes.com/ You might find them interesting in view of the questions you have asked. Further reading: |
