Sex Safe and Fun

Sex, Safe and Fun is a resource pack for teaching people with intellectual disability about positive safe sex messages.  The resource presents a factual and balanced view of the rights and responsibilities associated with a range of sexual activities.  There are important messages about consent, enjoyment, intimacy, privacy and safety. 

Throughout Sex, Safe and Fun key messages about sexual behaviours and activities are termed ‘good sex’ or ‘bad sex’. Good sex is used to describe behaviours that are consensual, private, enjoyable, safe and within the law. These are presented in contrast with bad sex. Bad sex is used to describe behaviours that are unsafe, generally not socially tolerated, and in some cases illegal.

Who should use it?

Parents, family members, support workers, advocates, teachers and clinicians who want to talk with a person with intellectual disability about sexuality may find Sex, Safe and Fun useful. The resource is designed to be used by support people with limited or no experience in providing information about sexuality. Together with the resources suggested at the end of each unit you will have access to simple and accurate information on the issues of safe sex, and responsible and acceptable sexual behaviour.

Sex, Safe and Fun is intended for use with adults with intellectual disability who have complex learning difficulties and low literacy.

Sex, Safe and Fun has four parts

There are two parts for the person with intellectual disability (the learner)

Sex, Safe and Fun booklet

An easy to read booklet with pictures about good sex and bad sex. The learner should keep the booklet as a visual reminder of what they have learnt.

 

 

 

Condom pack

A small pack that has a condom and sachet of lubricant (lube), and a booklet with step-by-step instructions about how to use a condom. The learner should keep them as a visual reminder of what they have learnt.

 

There are two parts for the support person

Support person’s guide

This guide is to help the support person feel confident using the resource. It will help you become familiar with the key messages in the booklet and condom pack.  It provides guidance on how to talk about the pictures and what questions to ask the learner.

 

 

Support person’s demonstration video

A short video that shows how to use the booklet with the learner.  It demonstrates one of the units in the guide using best practice education principles for teaching people with intellectual disability.

 

 

 

 

 

Download Sex, Safe and Fun

Size

Type

Sex Safe and Fun booklet (A5)
(for best results print in colour and select booklet style)

341 kB

PDF

How to use a condom booklet (A5) 
(for best results print in colour and select booklet style)

Please note: the full condom pack including a condom and sachet of lubricant is available for order only.

302 kB

PDF

Support persons guide (A4)
 

1861 kB

PDF

Order Sex, Safe and Fun 

Order the Sex, Safe and Fun resource suite 

(includes the Sex, Safe and Fun booklet, condom pack, and support person’s guide)

Order Condom pack

(a small pack that has a condom and sachet of lubricant (lube) and a booklet with step-by-step instructions about how to use a condom)

Download teaching activity cards 

Good sex and bad sex activity cards (A4) 
(includes instructions and activity cards ideal for group based learning. For best results print in colour and laminate)

942kb

PDF

How to use a condom activity cards (A4) 
(includes instructions and activity cards ideal for group based learning. For best results print in colour and laminate)

801kb

PDF

Learn more about using Sex, Safe and Fun

For disability workers

 

Online Sex, Safe and Fun course: Check back for the online Sex, Safe and Fun course.  Coming soon!

Click here to find out about other courses for disability workers.

For parents and carers

Sexuality and Relationships Forum for parents and carers of people with intellectual disability. Find out how to support your family member’s personal development and sexuality in a positive way.  View the Sexuality and Relationships Forum page.

Want more info about sexuality and disability?

To find out more about our work with the disability sector including information about resources, our advocacy work, and education and training opportunities go to our disability information page

Contact us

To contact the Disability team:
Phone: (02) 8752 4300
Email: healthpromotion@fpnsw.org.au

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